The Best Prostate Massager for Toe-Curling Male Orgasms in 2021

Sure, your fingers can reach your prostate. But these p-spot stimulators are way easier and more effective

The Best Prostate Massager for Toe-Curling Male Orgasms

If you're interested in exploring butt play or want to experience more powerful p-spot orgasms, toys made specifically to stimulate the prostate are the way to go.

Best Prostate Massager For Most Guys

njoy Pure Wand

njoy Stainless Steel Pure Wand Prostate Stimulator
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The njoy Pure Wand stimulates the prostate like no other we’ve ever used. Curved like the letter C with a large and small ball at each end, it’s easy to insert and move for precise control. Made from polished stainless steel, it’s easy to clean, impermeable to odors, and nearly indestructible. This sex toy is truly "buy it for life" (BIFL).

And since it’s made from pure stainless steel, it's compatible with every kind of lube. This thing is indestructible!

Best Prostate Massager for Beginners

Aneros Helix Syn Trident

Aneros Helix Syn Trident Prostate Massager
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The Aneros Helix Syn Trident is super-easy to insert, stays put in your butt, and delivers strong prostate stimulation for hands-free solo masturbation sessions and sex with a partner. The sleek shape and smooth silicone covering allow you to manually thrust it in and out for added pleasure.

Several features male the Aneros Helix Syn Trident a great choice for anal virgins and beginners looking to explore anal sex with toys, but don’t want to bite off more than they can chew with a bigger toy they might not like.

The Helix Syn Trident can be used as a hands-free p-spot stimulator and you can thrust it in and out like an anal dildo.

It’s made from hard plastic covered in 100% silicone, so it’s non-porous and body-safe. It washes easily with soap and water, and doesn’t pick up odors.

The small, round head makes it incredibly easy to insert with some water-based lube, and the bulbous body and narrow base keep it securely in your butt.

Once inserted, the Helix Syn Trident settles against the prostate firmly, providing enjoyable pressure on the walls of the anal canal, an erogenous zone with millions of pleasure receptors. And when playtime is over, the handle is easy to grab.

For a premium male prostate massager, the Aneros Helix Syn Trident offers a surprising amount of value for the money.

Best Prostate Massager For Experienced Guys

Aneros Eupho Syn

Aneros Eupho Syn Prostate Stimulator for Men
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Orgasms with the Aneros Eupho Syn were consistently longer and more intense with other toys, according to most testers. The small tip of the Eupho Syn is ridiculously easy to insert, stays in place comfortably for many hours at a time, and delivers surprisingly strong p-spot stimulation.

The small tip of the Eupho Syn is ridiculously easy to insert, stays in place comfortably for many hours at a time, and delivers surprisingly strong p-spot stimulation.

Aneros designed the Eupho Series with a long, thin shape allowing it to dance around the prostate more than other Aneros devices. They advertise it as a toy for guys with some experience, and we agree.

Since you need to have some mastery of your pelvic floor muscles to control it hands-free, the Eupho Syn is best for guys who have grown bored with their existing toys and want an upgrade.

In Aneros-speak, “Syn” refers to the sleek black silicone covering that feels velvety and retains lube longer than the hard plastic Classic and Helix Series.

Cleanup is quick and easy using hot soapy water in the sink.

Best Bluetooth Prostate Vibrator

Lelo Hugo

Lelo Hugo Wireless Bluetooth Prostate Vibrator
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The Lelo Hugo is a powerful motorized prostate vibrator for guys who like a feeling of fullness in their butt and enjoy intense vibrations, pulses, and thumps against their prostate. The remote control makes it great for couples.

The Lelo Hugo is a powerful motorized prostate vibrator for guys who like a feeling of fullness in their butt and enjoy intense vibrations, pulses, and thumps against their prostate. The remote control makes it great for couples.

The Lelo Hugo is a rechargeable, wireless prostate vibrator with two powerful motors and an ergonomic shape designed to stimulate the male g-spot from inside and outside the body. The big, bulbous arm is inserted into the butt, delivering powerful vibrations to the prostate, while the smaller end rests on the taint, delivering pleasurable perineum stimulation.

It’s waterproof and covered in body-safe silicone that feels smooth to the touch.

It comes with a handheld wireless remote control that allows you to adjust the intensity of vibrations. The remote can be a lot of fun when using the Hugo with a partner since it vibrates the remote the same way the toy is vibrating.

The Hugo is powered by a rechargeable battery using an included USB charging cable that gives it 90 days of standby time so it’s ready to play when you are, and a 2 hour charge gives you 2 hours of mind-blowing fun.

The Hugo is the most powerful prostate vibrator we’ve ever tried: Its dual-motor design really delivers, but even at its lowest setting, it can feel overwhelming. Luckily, it’s a hell of a lot of fun even when turned off and used by hand.

Best Budget P-Spot Toy

Doc Johnson Mood Naughty 2

Doc Johnson Mood Naughty 2
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The Doc Johnson Mood Naughty 2 is a great choice for any guy who wants to explore prostate play or get a new toy, but doesn’t want to pay an arm and a leg.

This prostate plug packs a powerful punch at a low price. Made from rigid plastic and covered in silicone, its long, narrow base prevents it from popping out and makes it comfortable for long-term wear.

It’s a manual plug-type prostate toy made from smooth, body-safe silicone. It applies great hands-free prostate pressure.

As you insert it, the bulbous nob on the end provides a gentle stretching sensation. Its tapered stem and curved base keep it positioned comfortably in your butt, so you’ll never be worrying about it popping out at the wrong moment. it’s also discreet, and can easily be worn out in public without anyone noticing you’ve got something in your ass.

The Mood Naughty 2 can usually be bought for about $25, and is available in 3 colors and 5 sizes from extra-small to extra-large.

But across the size range, it felt smaller than expected, so choose your size carefully.

Alternatives to consider

Nobessence Seduction 2.0

Nobessence Seduction 2.0 Prostate Stimulator
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The NobEssence Seduction 2.0 is a sculptural hardwood sex toy that earns rave reviews from men AND women for intense P-spot / G-spot stimulation, smooth exterior, and good looks. But since it’s made of wood with a special body-safe finish, it can't be washed in the dishwasher. Wood doesn’t hold heat or cold well so it can’t be used for temperature play, either.

njoy P-Fun Stainless Steel Prostate Massager

njoy P-Fun Stainless Steel Prostate Massager
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We enjoyed the smooth feel of the njoy P-Fun Stainless Steel Prostate Massager on the prostate during solo masturbation sessions, but compared to the Pure Wand, it required more strength and skill to control.

Lovense Edge

Lovense Edge Wireless Prostate Stimulator Smartphone App Enabled
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The Lovense Edge is a hands-free wireless motorized prostate massager that uses bluetooth and an app to control its many powerful vibration settings, and our testers loved its adjustable arms and powerful stimulation. But without a good Bluetooth/internet connection, the phone app is useless, and you won’t be able to enjoy the limitless vibrator settings.

Tantus P-Spot Silicone Prostate Dildo

Tantus P-Spot Black Silicone Prostate Dildo
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The Tantus P-Spot is a 7.5 inch long male dildo that comes with a small bullet vibrator that can be inserted into the back if you want to kick the stimulation up a notch. It has a contoured shaft and curved tip providing precise P-spot stimulation and a bulbous that rests on the prostate and delivers warm, fuzzy feelings, but once inserted, its tendency to zig and zag means occasional repositioning is needed.

Rocks Off Big Boy

Rocks Off Big Boy Black Silicone Prostate Vibrator

The Rocks Off Big Boy prostate vibrator was designed for guys who get off on the feel of multiple wide, vibrating balls of pleasure in their butt for hands-free masturbation and sex with a partner. The Big Boy’s wide insertable end stretches and stimulates the anus while its large black balls massage the P-spot. It also tickles the perineum. The Big Boy is available with two different insertable bullet vibes (7-function and 10-function). Both pack a punch, and the 7-function bullet is usually a little cheaper. A great choice for those seeking a thick toy that delivers extremely “full” feelings and vibrations, the Big Boy is too intimidating for the average guy.

How to choose a prostate massager

Shopping for prostate toys is often less fun than it sounds. Stores stock so many different kinds of anal toys from so many different manufacturers, finding the best prostate massager can feel impossible.

First, there is no one “best” prostate toy for every man. Each guy’s sexual tastes are unique.

Second, guys’ bodies are all different. While one guy’s prostate may be located two inches insight his ass, another guy’s may be three inches.

And since high-quality sex toys are often expensive and hard to return, it can be frustrating to buy one you don’t love.

Features to look for

  • Flared base to prevent losing it in the rectum
  • Made from non-toxic, non-porous, body-safe materials
  • Smooth texture to prevent pinching/discomfort 
  • Easy to insert, remove, and use
  • Easy-to-clean
  • Doesn’t absorb bad smells

Flared base

A flared base is a handle that’s wider than the body of the toy, and It’s necessary because your body could easily “suck” an object into your butt because the sphincter muscles of the anus are always working to keep it closed.

In other words, the anus has a mind of its own, and it’s, well, retentive.

  • If you stick an apple or deodorant bottle into your butt, there’s a decent chance your body will accidentally surprise you by sucking the entire thing inside your butt so deep you can’t retrieve it.
  • This can cause pain or bodily damage—in addition to the shock and terror you’ll feel when you realize what’s just happened.
  • ER visits for anal sex toy retrieval happen all the time. Emergency room doctors have even reported a “progressive rise” in visits for removal of foreign bodies in the rectum.

Body-safe, non-porous materials

It may feel reassuring to see “body-safe” and “pthalate-free” on the packaging, but you should also check to confirm exactly what’s in it. Toxic sex toy materials can cause itching, burning, rashes, and tissue damage.

  • The rectum is made from a moisture permeable membrane capable of transmitting soluble chemicals into the bloodstream.
  • No laws regulate the adult toy industry, so sex toy manufacturers sometimes cut costs by using cheap materials
  • Non-porous materials have small pores that will always harbor germs, so you’ll never get them completely clean.

Safe materials for prostate massagers

  • silicone
  • intramed
  • stainless steel
  • glass
  • hard plastic – including ABS and polypropylene
  • aluminum
  • titanium
  • ceramic – if its glazed
  • acrylic
  • wood – if the manufacturer uses a special non-porous finish

Unsafe materials for prostate massagers

  • soft plastic
  • jelly rubber
  • TPE
  • PVC
  • TPR
  • UR3
  • softskin (also called cyberskin)
  • elastomer
  • silicone/elastomer blends (also called SEB or SEBS)
  • any other “silicone blend”, even if it says it’s a “body-safe silicone blend”

Best Overall

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Best Flesh Light Overall - Mia Malkova Lvl Up

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Intense sleeve with swirling texture gives milking sensation
  • Off-center orifice offers extra pressure
  • Bumps and ridges squeeze the frenulum and glans

Cons

  • Some guys feel the sleeve is overrated

Mia Malkova's Lvl Up Fleshlight offers wonderful initial penetration thanks to the offset bump, allowing you to play 'Just The Tip' for hours. Once you finally slide in, a chamber of swirly suckers softly slides, grips, and twists you into ecstasy. Lvl Up offers an intense combo of sensations that will milk you dry quickly if you're not paying attention.

Read full review: Ultimate Fleshlight Review

Best for beginners

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Best Fleshlight for Beginners - Dillion Harper Crush

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • This smooth, low to mid-intensity sleeve is one of the best for hard pounding
  • Texture isn’t aggressive or super busy but still feels incredibly realistic
  • Equally good for quick lunch-break nuts and longer edging sessions

Cons

  • May be too loose for guys with Death Grip Syndrome.

Dillion Harper's Crush Fleshlight offers a great balance of realism and gentle stimulation that's ideal for beginners. Crush is a versatile sleeve with a 'mild to wild' personality and wonderfully varied textures that will bring you to your knees.

Best pornstar Fleshlight

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Best Pornstar Fleshlight - Riley Reid Utopia

Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • Mild, realistic entrance feels more intense the deeper you go
  • Interesting variety is a ton of fun to thrust hard and fast into
  • Ridges and nubs stimulate gently while building you up to intense orgasms

Cons

  • Some girthy guys say those little bumpy nodes can feel too rough and intense

The Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight blends textured walls with size-changing canals and tighter nodes to push through. If you like a soft, smooth sleeve with interesting variety, Utopia will knock your socks off.

Best pink Fleshlight

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Best Pink Fleshlight Sleeve - Destroya

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Tight entryway opens into chamber of fangs
  • Lady and butt entries available
  • $10 cheaper than Stoya's version

Cons

  • Slower than average drying time
  • Must Build Your Own for complete Fleshlight with case

The Fleshlight Destroya texture is famous for being one of the most intense and stimulating sleeves, and it definitely lives up to its reputation. But brute force intensity is not its only shining quality. Expect to be enveloped by spikey fangs that massage your member into an orgasmic mess.

Best blowjob Fleshlight

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Best Blowjob Fleshlight - Turbo Thrust

Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • The Thrust orifice and texture provide a truly unique Fleshlight sensation
  • Two front rings provide soft, consistent pressure to your shaft
  • $10 cheaper than Fleshlight Girls

Cons

  • Blue Ice material becomes cloudy over time

The two leading rings of the Turbo Thrust Fleshlight simulate the feeling of lips and tongue during a blowjob. Each ring provides soft, consistent pressure on your shaft and a range of intensity as you thrust deeper inside the canal. Plus, the successively tightening spiked rings and the chamber of teeth that lay beyond them actually simulate the feeling of a sloppy wet blowjob. And they're only intensified by watching your cock fill up the canal. The Turbo Thrust is a must for every Fleshlight collector.

Best vibrating Fleshlight

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Best Vibrating Fleshlight - Vibro Touch

Our Rating

3.5
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pros

  • Intense, stimulating texture works great for quickies
  • Entrance feels extremely tight when vibes used
  • Vagina and butt entries available
  • 3 bullet vibrators and 10 batteries included

Cons

  • Can be too stimulating for some guys

The Vibro Fleshlight is like the STU on steroids. The Vibro's special sleeve, called Touch, holds up to three battery-powered vibrators. The entire interior canal of the Touch sleeve is lined with cylindrical "fingers" that rub, nudge, and prod every part of the penis from the base to the tip, similar to the STU's sleeve design.

Best Clear Fleshlight

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Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • Super stimulating round bumped chambers up front
  • Cool to watch yourself penetrate the toy
  • Both pussy and ass entries available

Cons

  • Clear Ice sleeves become cloudy over time

The Ice Fleshlight comes in both vagina and butt entries, but regardless of orifice, its legendary see-through Crystal texture offers a great combination of stimulation and variation. You get chambers lined with thick ribs, round bumps and rings of various sizes grip and rub your manhood, then open up to a nice gentle massage passage.The variation in textures means that you can get different sensations by focussing on different parts of the sleeve, so I find it pretty perfect for edging.

Most realistic vagina

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Best Realistic Vagina Fleshlight - Dominika Butterfly

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Large, meaty labia slap your balls at full penetration
  • Wide caverns and large nodes offer high stimulation and low intensity
  • Looseness allows slow buildup and long, explosive orgasms

Cons

  • Guys who prize tightness above realism will find it lacking

Dominika's Butterfly Fleshlight provides amazing realism and orgasm quality with a large attractive vulva that you won't be able to look away from. The first chamber has a very open channel containing large alternating pill shaped nodes that allows for quite a lot of movement and stimulation. The second chamber gets a bit tighter as you squeeze through a narrow passage of textured bumps. The third chamber of soft pointed nubs surround your cock and massage it from all angles.

Most realistic butt

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Most Realistic Butt Fleshlight - Eva Lovia Spice

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Narrow ribbed chamber creates awesome suction effect
  • Milder anal texture great for edging
  • Quiet with fast cleaning and drying times

Cons

  • Longer than average "break-in" time

Eva Lovia's Spice Fleshlight is that rare anal sleeve that feels realistic without being overly intense or aggressive. The Spice texture features a narrow entry chamber followed by a larger open area with small nubs, then finally another narrow ribbed chamber. This design creates a gentle suction effect that sucks your cock deeper into the sleeve. The combination of low to mid-intensity, realism, and mild suction feel awesome and result in high orgasm quality.

Best tight Fleshlight

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Best Tight Flesh Light - Brandi Love Shameless

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Brandi's tight butthole is extremely tight
  • Unique protruding cheeks tickle your undercarriage
  • Very lube efficient

Cons

  • Cleaning and drying times on the long side

Brandi Love's Shameless Fleshlight is an extremely tight anal sleeve with a one-of-a-kind penetration experience. Stretch out her tiny little hole and push into a narrow, nubbed chamber that gives way to layers of honeycomb ridges that ratchet up the pressure.

With your dick fully inserted, Brandi's protruding buttocks tickle your balls and tease your sensitive undercarriage.

Read buying guide: The Tightest Fleshlight Sleeves

Best intense Fleshlight

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Best Intense Fleshlight - Nikki Benz Reign

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Woven texture in first chamber feels uniquely intense
  • Moderately tight sleeve allows you to feel every bump and rib

Cons

  • Intricate pattern needs a bit more cleanup time

The first chamber of the Nikki Benz Reign Fleshlight is lined with a thick criss-cross pattern that feels amazing as you slide in, especially on your head and frenelum. Push further and you can feel several rings pop and squeeze your tip, before you enter into an even tighter area. There is no relief with this sleeve, it is intense sensation after intense sensation.

Best gentle Fleshlight

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Best Gentle Fleshlight - Ana Foxxx Silk

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • A smooth, moderately tight and intense sleeve that's excellent for edging
  • Chocolate brown superskin material beautiful to look at
  • Great for slow buildups and big climaxes

Cons

  • Suction effect can be noisy

Ana Foxx's Silk Fleshlight is silky smooth, but not so smooth that it's boring. There are some mild variations in the texture but overall it's a medium tight and gentle ride that works well for longer and less intense edging sessions. The smaller channel with the little bumps feels delightful as you push into the third chamber, lightly teasing your tip, building excitement and the drive towards climax. This makes it a great texture to try at different stoke lengths and positions.

Best cheap Fleshlight

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Riley Reid Quickshot

Best Cheap Fleshlight - Riley Reid Quickshot

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Mini Utopia sleeve include Riley Reid's vagina and butt
  • Two orgasmic orifices for the price of one
  • Quick and easy cleanup

Cons

  • Noisier than larger Fleshlights
  • Not as good as the large size Riley Reid Fleshlight

Riley Reid's Quickshot packs a surprising variety of textures into the Quickshot's smaller open-ended stroker design. Push past Riley's lips into her snug pussy and you'll feel the grip of stimulating gears. On the opposite end, her asshole has a nice tightness to it with a blocky pattern that offer a nice resistance.

Read full review: Fleshlight Quickshot Review

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Harry D. Somers

Harry D. Somers is the editor and founder of Fresh Materials. Based in Miami Florida, he's the kinky, bisexual, horny, sex-positive blogger behind FM's articles, tutorials, and toy reviews.

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