The Best Lube for Fleshlights and Pocket Pussies in 2021

Lube quality can make or break your Fleshlight experience, so we compiled this list of the best lube brands for Fleshlight sleeves and pocket pussies

The best lube for Fleshlight sleeves and pocket pussies

Feeling overwhelmed by the infinite number of Fleshlight lube options? You're not alone.

This buying guide doesn't list every lubricant available in stores or online.

Instead, it lists the tried-and-tested water-based lubes that we like to use with our Fleshlights —the ones we trust and recommend. Let’s get started.

Here's what we'll cover:

1. Gun Oil H20 - Best Lube For Fleshlight

Gun Oil H20 Fleshlight Lube Review
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Gun Oil H20 is our top choice for the best Fleshlight lube because it performs so well in so many different scenarios.

Is it super-slick and long-lasting? Check.

Easy to wash off skin and won’t stain fabrics? Check.

Hypoallergenic and made with Aloe Vera and Vitamin E? Yup!

Here’s a typical review of Gun Oil H20 over at r/Fleshlight.

I used Astroglide for 10+ years mainly for the convenience of being able to purchase it at Walmart (Gotta have those sex toys in the hotel room while traveling away from the wife!)This last Christmas, I purchased Gun Oil H20 to give it a try. I'm working my way through the 32 oz bottle, which is probably a years supply.  I like the herbs and stuff that they put in the Gun Oil. I would swear that my dick feels softer now. - Mike in CO

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2. Fleshlube Water

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Fleshlube Water was formulated specifically for using with Fleshlights—which it’s very good for—but it’s just as effective for penile-vaginal intercourse, manual masturbation—and any other penetrable TPE pocket pussies.

Fleshlube Water and Riley Reid Quickshot
A bottle of Fleshlube Water next to my trusty Riley Reid Quickshot

Compared to Gun Oil H20, Fleshlube Water is lighter and thinner. On your skin, it feels less “lubey“ and more like women’s natural vaginal secretions.

Lighter lubes like Fleshlube Water usually reduce friction better than gel-based lubes like KY Ultra-Gel, which makes them a good choice for men with girthy, thick, penises.

Slather some on your dick and squirt a drop or two into the orifice, and within a minute your own body heat will warm the lube inside the sleeve.

After you’re done jerking off, it's easy to clean up and doesn't leave a sticky-feeling residue on your skin.

What we like:

  • Easy to clean off skin and fabric
  • Non-staining and low-odor
  • Contains Vitamin E and Aloe Vera

3. Fleshlube Slide

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Fleshlube Slide is the brand’s newest Fleshlight lube—and their first water-based "anal lube" formulated for anal sex and butt play.

They call it an "anal lube" because it's thicker than your average lube, which can helps protect the butt’s delicate tissues. But Fleshlube Slide is not a silicone lube--it's completely water-based, so it's perfectly safe for using with Fleshlights and other TPE male masturbators.

Besides offering excellent lubrication, it offers all the qualities we’ve come to expect from a Fleshlight lube: It’s long-lasting, washes off easily with water and doesn’t stain sheets or bedding.

Also, it contains Aloe Vera and Olive Leaf extract which make your skin feel soft and supple.

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4. Sliquid Organics Natural Gel

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Sliquid Organics Natural Gel is a surprisingly affordable organic lube made with 100% vegan ingredients that makes Fleshighting, anal and vaginal sex feel wonderful.

Made from Aloe Vera, it’s moderately thick and well-behaved, but not overly gel-like — An ideal lube for beginners without a lot of lube-shopping experience under their belts.

As an added bonus, it has a purple bottle that doesn’t look like a typical clear lube bottle, so if you accidentally leave it out, it just looks like massage oil or hand lotion.

Alternatives to consider

Pjur Aqua Premium Water-Based Lube

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Manufactured by Pjur, a German company that’s mostly famous for making premium quality silicone personal lubricants with medical-grade ingredients, Pjur Aqua is an excellent water-based lube that tends to be pricy—though you can sometimes find good deals for it.

Pjur Aqua is one of the longest lasting water lubes I’ve ever tried—it dries out much more slowly than other water soluble lubes and requires less frequent reapplication than many cheaper drugstore-quality lubes.

It has no scent or fragrance and it feels light and silky, with a consistency that almost feels like a silicone lube.

A favorite in the FL community, Pjur Aqua is easy to clean, stain-free, and doesn’t leave a residue of lube boogers—a real benefit for uncircumcised guys with foreskins. It works great-but the higher-than-average price tag may not be cost-effective for your budget.

Sliquid Sassy

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Sliquid Sassy is a thick gel lube that was edged out by Sliquid’s organic water-based lube in our recommendations. Sassy has a jelly-like thickness, which makes it perfect for easing big things into tight holes.

Fleshlight enthusiasts and sex toy aficionados of all stripes love Sassy for being one of the most versatile water-based lubricants on the market.

Whatever types of sex toys you like to play with — silicone, TPE, Superskin, metal, glass, anal, vaginal, penile —you name it and Sliquid Sassy will make it easier to penetrate.

Why lubrication is important

Using a Fleshlight without lube is like trying to fuck a baseball glove.

You can do it but it won’t feel good unless you have a baseball glove fetish.

The rest of us need lube to enjoy using our Fleshlights.

Fleshlight-safe lubes

Many popular lubes can damage the the delicate Superskin sleeve material of a Fleshlight if they come into contact with it.

Bad lubes

Oil-based, silicone, and hybrid lubes are incompatible with Fleshlights.

Over a short period of time, they will “melt” your sleeves, degrading the appearance along with the shape and feel of the orifice and textures inside.

Good lubes

Water-based lubes are the only kind you should use with TPE masturbation toys like Fleshies. Water-soluble and Aloe Vera-based lubes are the same thing with fancier sounding names.

Ingredients to avoid

If you’re even a little bit unsure about a lube, look at the label and ingredients list first to make sure it doesn’t contain any of the following words

  • Silicone
  • Petroleum
  • Petrolatum
  • Vegetable oil
  • Canola oil
  • Olive oil
  • Coconut oil
  • Almond oil
  • Avocado oil
  • Massage oil
  • Baby oil
  • Butter
  • Margarine
  • Cooking spray

What brands do you recommend?

Based on online reviews and recommendations, we’re planning to test Wicked Aqua later this year, but we know there are other body-safe, natural lubes out there, too.

What’s your favorite Fleshlight-safe lube? Let us know down in the comments.

Best Overall

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Best Flesh Light Overall - Mia Malkova Lvl Up

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Intense sleeve with swirling texture gives milking sensation
  • Off-center orifice offers extra pressure
  • Bumps and ridges squeeze the frenulum and glans

Cons

  • Some guys feel the sleeve is overrated

Mia Malkova's Lvl Up Fleshlight offers wonderful initial penetration thanks to the offset bump, allowing you to play 'Just The Tip' for hours. Once you finally slide in, a chamber of swirly suckers softly slides, grips, and twists you into ecstasy. Lvl Up offers an intense combo of sensations that will milk you dry quickly if you're not paying attention.

Read full review: Ultimate Fleshlight Review

Best for beginners

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Best Fleshlight for Beginners - Dillion Harper Crush

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • This smooth, low to mid-intensity sleeve is one of the best for hard pounding
  • Texture isn’t aggressive or super busy but still feels incredibly realistic
  • Equally good for quick lunch-break nuts and longer edging sessions

Cons

  • May be too loose for guys with Death Grip Syndrome.

Dillion Harper's Crush Fleshlight offers a great balance of realism and gentle stimulation that's ideal for beginners. Crush is a versatile sleeve with a 'mild to wild' personality and wonderfully varied textures that will bring you to your knees.

Best pornstar Fleshlight

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Best Pornstar Fleshlight - Riley Reid Utopia

Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • Mild, realistic entrance feels more intense the deeper you go
  • Interesting variety is a ton of fun to thrust hard and fast into
  • Ridges and nubs stimulate gently while building you up to intense orgasms

Cons

  • Some girthy guys say those little bumpy nodes can feel too rough and intense

The Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight blends textured walls with size-changing canals and tighter nodes to push through. If you like a soft, smooth sleeve with interesting variety, Utopia will knock your socks off.

Best pink Fleshlight

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Best Pink Fleshlight Sleeve - Destroya

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Tight entryway opens into chamber of fangs
  • Lady and butt entries available
  • $10 cheaper than Stoya's version

Cons

  • Slower than average drying time
  • Must Build Your Own for complete Fleshlight with case

The Fleshlight Destroya texture is famous for being one of the most intense and stimulating sleeves, and it definitely lives up to its reputation. But brute force intensity is not its only shining quality. Expect to be enveloped by spikey fangs that massage your member into an orgasmic mess.

Best blowjob Fleshlight

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Best Blowjob Fleshlight - Turbo Thrust

Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • The Thrust orifice and texture provide a truly unique Fleshlight sensation
  • Two front rings provide soft, consistent pressure to your shaft
  • $10 cheaper than Fleshlight Girls

Cons

  • Blue Ice material becomes cloudy over time

The two leading rings of the Turbo Thrust Fleshlight simulate the feeling of lips and tongue during a blowjob. Each ring provides soft, consistent pressure on your shaft and a range of intensity as you thrust deeper inside the canal. Plus, the successively tightening spiked rings and the chamber of teeth that lay beyond them actually simulate the feeling of a sloppy wet blowjob. And they're only intensified by watching your cock fill up the canal. The Turbo Thrust is a must for every Fleshlight collector.

Best vibrating Fleshlight

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Best Vibrating Fleshlight - Vibro Touch

Our Rating

3.5
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pros

  • Intense, stimulating texture works great for quickies
  • Entrance feels extremely tight when vibes used
  • Vagina and butt entries available
  • 3 bullet vibrators and 10 batteries included

Cons

  • Can be too stimulating for some guys

The Vibro Fleshlight is like the STU on steroids. The Vibro's special sleeve, called Touch, holds up to three battery-powered vibrators. The entire interior canal of the Touch sleeve is lined with cylindrical "fingers" that rub, nudge, and prod every part of the penis from the base to the tip, similar to the STU's sleeve design.

Best Clear Fleshlight

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Our Rating

4.0
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pros

  • Super stimulating round bumped chambers up front
  • Cool to watch yourself penetrate the toy
  • Both pussy and ass entries available

Cons

  • Clear Ice sleeves become cloudy over time

The Ice Fleshlight comes in both vagina and butt entries, but regardless of orifice, its legendary see-through Crystal texture offers a great combination of stimulation and variation. You get chambers lined with thick ribs, round bumps and rings of various sizes grip and rub your manhood, then open up to a nice gentle massage passage.The variation in textures means that you can get different sensations by focussing on different parts of the sleeve, so I find it pretty perfect for edging.

Most realistic vagina

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Best Realistic Vagina Fleshlight - Dominika Butterfly

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Large, meaty labia slap your balls at full penetration
  • Wide caverns and large nodes offer high stimulation and low intensity
  • Looseness allows slow buildup and long, explosive orgasms

Cons

  • Guys who prize tightness above realism will find it lacking

Dominika's Butterfly Fleshlight provides amazing realism and orgasm quality with a large attractive vulva that you won't be able to look away from. The first chamber has a very open channel containing large alternating pill shaped nodes that allows for quite a lot of movement and stimulation. The second chamber gets a bit tighter as you squeeze through a narrow passage of textured bumps. The third chamber of soft pointed nubs surround your cock and massage it from all angles.

Most realistic butt

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Most Realistic Butt Fleshlight - Eva Lovia Spice

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Narrow ribbed chamber creates awesome suction effect
  • Milder anal texture great for edging
  • Quiet with fast cleaning and drying times

Cons

  • Longer than average "break-in" time

Eva Lovia's Spice Fleshlight is that rare anal sleeve that feels realistic without being overly intense or aggressive. The Spice texture features a narrow entry chamber followed by a larger open area with small nubs, then finally another narrow ribbed chamber. This design creates a gentle suction effect that sucks your cock deeper into the sleeve. The combination of low to mid-intensity, realism, and mild suction feel awesome and result in high orgasm quality.

Best tight Fleshlight

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Best Tight Flesh Light - Brandi Love Shameless

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Brandi's tight butthole is extremely tight
  • Unique protruding cheeks tickle your undercarriage
  • Very lube efficient

Cons

  • Cleaning and drying times on the long side

Brandi Love's Shameless Fleshlight is an extremely tight anal sleeve with a one-of-a-kind penetration experience. Stretch out her tiny little hole and push into a narrow, nubbed chamber that gives way to layers of honeycomb ridges that ratchet up the pressure.

With your dick fully inserted, Brandi's protruding buttocks tickle your balls and tease your sensitive undercarriage.

Read buying guide: The Tightest Fleshlight Sleeves

Best intense Fleshlight

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Best Intense Fleshlight - Nikki Benz Reign

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Woven texture in first chamber feels uniquely intense
  • Moderately tight sleeve allows you to feel every bump and rib

Cons

  • Intricate pattern needs a bit more cleanup time

The first chamber of the Nikki Benz Reign Fleshlight is lined with a thick criss-cross pattern that feels amazing as you slide in, especially on your head and frenelum. Push further and you can feel several rings pop and squeeze your tip, before you enter into an even tighter area. There is no relief with this sleeve, it is intense sensation after intense sensation.

Best gentle Fleshlight

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Best Gentle Fleshlight - Ana Foxxx Silk

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • A smooth, moderately tight and intense sleeve that's excellent for edging
  • Chocolate brown superskin material beautiful to look at
  • Great for slow buildups and big climaxes

Cons

  • Suction effect can be noisy

Ana Foxx's Silk Fleshlight is silky smooth, but not so smooth that it's boring. There are some mild variations in the texture but overall it's a medium tight and gentle ride that works well for longer and less intense edging sessions. The smaller channel with the little bumps feels delightful as you push into the third chamber, lightly teasing your tip, building excitement and the drive towards climax. This makes it a great texture to try at different stoke lengths and positions.

Best cheap Fleshlight

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Riley Reid Quickshot

Best Cheap Fleshlight - Riley Reid Quickshot

Our Rating

4.5
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pros

  • Mini Utopia sleeve include Riley Reid's vagina and butt
  • Two orgasmic orifices for the price of one
  • Quick and easy cleanup

Cons

  • Noisier than larger Fleshlights
  • Not as good as the large size Riley Reid Fleshlight

Riley Reid's Quickshot packs a surprising variety of textures into the Quickshot's smaller open-ended stroker design. Push past Riley's lips into her snug pussy and you'll feel the grip of stimulating gears. On the opposite end, her asshole has a nice tightness to it with a blocky pattern that offer a nice resistance.

Read full review: Fleshlight Quickshot Review

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Harry D. Somers

Harry D. Somers is the editor and founder of Fresh Materials. Based in Miami Florida, he's the kinky, bisexual, horny, sex-positive blogger behind FM's articles, tutorials, and toy reviews.

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