Feeling overwhelmed by the infinite number of Fleshlight lube options? You're not alone.
This buying guide doesn't list every lubricant available in stores or online.
Instead, it lists the tried-and-tested water-based lubes that we like to use with our Fleshlights —the ones we trust and recommend. Let’s get started.
Here's what we'll cover:
Gun Oil H20 is our top choice for the best Fleshlight lube because it performs so well in so many different scenarios.
Is it super-slick and long-lasting? Check.
Easy to wash off skin and won’t stain fabrics? Check.
Hypoallergenic and made with Aloe Vera and Vitamin E? Yup!
Here’s a typical review of Gun Oil H20 over at r/Fleshlight.
I used Astroglide for 10+ years mainly for the convenience of being able to purchase it at Walmart (Gotta have those sex toys in the hotel room while traveling away from the wife!)This last Christmas, I purchased Gun Oil H20 to give it a try. I'm working my way through the 32 oz bottle, which is probably a years supply. I like the herbs and stuff that they put in the Gun Oil. I would swear that my dick feels softer now. - Mike in CO
Fleshlube Water was formulated specifically for using with Fleshlights—which it’s very good for—but it’s just as effective for penile-vaginal intercourse, manual masturbation—and any other penetrable TPE pocket pussies.
Compared to Gun Oil H20, Fleshlube Water is lighter and thinner. On your skin, it feels less “lubey“ and more like women’s natural vaginal secretions.
Lighter lubes like Fleshlube Water usually reduce friction better than gel-based lubes like KY Ultra-Gel, which makes them a good choice for men with girthy, thick, penises.
Slather some on your dick and squirt a drop or two into the orifice, and within a minute your own body heat will warm the lube inside the sleeve.
After you’re done jerking off, it's easy to clean up and doesn't leave a sticky-feeling residue on your skin.
What we like:
Fleshlube Slide is the brand’s newest Fleshlight lube—and their first water-based "anal lube" formulated for anal sex and butt play.
They call it an "anal lube" because it's thicker than your average lube, which can helps protect the butt’s delicate tissues. But Fleshlube Slide is not a silicone lube--it's completely water-based, so it's perfectly safe for using with Fleshlights and other TPE male masturbators.
Besides offering excellent lubrication, it offers all the qualities we’ve come to expect from a Fleshlight lube: It’s long-lasting, washes off easily with water and doesn’t stain sheets or bedding.
Also, it contains Aloe Vera and Olive Leaf extract which make your skin feel soft and supple.
Sliquid Organics Natural Gel is a surprisingly affordable organic lube made with 100% vegan ingredients that makes Fleshighting, anal and vaginal sex feel wonderful.
Made from Aloe Vera, it’s moderately thick and well-behaved, but not overly gel-like — An ideal lube for beginners without a lot of lube-shopping experience under their belts.
As an added bonus, it has a purple bottle that doesn’t look like a typical clear lube bottle, so if you accidentally leave it out, it just looks like massage oil or hand lotion.
Manufactured by Pjur, a German company that’s mostly famous for making premium quality silicone personal lubricants with medical-grade ingredients, Pjur Aqua is an excellent water-based lube that tends to be pricy—though you can sometimes find good deals for it.
Pjur Aqua is one of the longest lasting water lubes I’ve ever tried—it dries out much more slowly than other water soluble lubes and requires less frequent reapplication than many cheaper drugstore-quality lubes.
It has no scent or fragrance and it feels light and silky, with a consistency that almost feels like a silicone lube.
A favorite in the FL community, Pjur Aqua is easy to clean, stain-free, and doesn’t leave a residue of lube boogers—a real benefit for uncircumcised guys with foreskins. It works great-but the higher-than-average price tag may not be cost-effective for your budget.
Sliquid Sassy is a thick gel lube that was edged out by Sliquid’s organic water-based lube in our recommendations. Sassy has a jelly-like thickness, which makes it perfect for easing big things into tight holes.
Fleshlight enthusiasts and sex toy aficionados of all stripes love Sassy for being one of the most versatile water-based lubricants on the market.
Whatever types of sex toys you like to play with — silicone, TPE, Superskin, metal, glass, anal, vaginal, penile —you name it and Sliquid Sassy will make it easier to penetrate.
Using a Fleshlight without lube is like trying to fuck a baseball glove.
You can do it but it won’t feel good unless you have a baseball glove fetish.
The rest of us need lube to enjoy using our Fleshlights.
Many popular lubes can damage the the delicate Superskin sleeve material of a Fleshlight if they come into contact with it.
Oil-based, silicone, and hybrid lubes are incompatible with Fleshlights.
Over a short period of time, they will “melt” your sleeves, degrading the appearance along with the shape and feel of the orifice and textures inside.
Water-based lubes are the only kind you should use with TPE masturbation toys like Fleshies. Water-soluble and Aloe Vera-based lubes are the same thing with fancier sounding names.
If you’re even a little bit unsure about a lube, look at the label and ingredients list first to make sure it doesn’t contain any of the following words
Based on online reviews and recommendations, we’re planning to test Wicked Aqua later this year, but we know there are other body-safe, natural lubes out there, too.
What’s your favorite Fleshlight-safe lube? Let us know down in the comments.
Mia Malkova's Lvl Up Fleshlight offers wonderful initial penetration thanks to the offset bump, allowing you to play 'Just The Tip' for hours. Once you finally slide in, a chamber of swirly suckers softly slides, grips, and twists you into ecstasy. Lvl Up offers an intense combo of sensations that will milk you dry quickly if you're not paying attention.
Read full review: Ultimate Fleshlight Review
Dillion Harper's Crush Fleshlight offers a great balance of realism and gentle stimulation that's ideal for beginners. Crush is a versatile sleeve with a 'mild to wild' personality and wonderfully varied textures that will bring you to your knees.
The Riley Reid Utopia Fleshlight blends textured walls with size-changing canals and tighter nodes to push through. If you like a soft, smooth sleeve with interesting variety, Utopia will knock your socks off.
The Fleshlight Destroya texture is famous for being one of the most intense and stimulating sleeves, and it definitely lives up to its reputation. But brute force intensity is not its only shining quality. Expect to be enveloped by spikey fangs that massage your member into an orgasmic mess.
The two leading rings of the Turbo Thrust Fleshlight simulate the feeling of lips and tongue during a blowjob. Each ring provides soft, consistent pressure on your shaft and a range of intensity as you thrust deeper inside the canal. Plus, the successively tightening spiked rings and the chamber of teeth that lay beyond them actually simulate the feeling of a sloppy wet blowjob. And they're only intensified by watching your cock fill up the canal. The Turbo Thrust is a must for every Fleshlight collector.
The Vibro Fleshlight is like the STU on steroids. The Vibro's special sleeve, called Touch, holds up to three battery-powered vibrators. The entire interior canal of the Touch sleeve is lined with cylindrical "fingers" that rub, nudge, and prod every part of the penis from the base to the tip, similar to the STU's sleeve design.
The Ice Fleshlight comes in both vagina and butt entries, but regardless of orifice, its legendary see-through Crystal texture offers a great combination of stimulation and variation. You get chambers lined with thick ribs, round bumps and rings of various sizes grip and rub your manhood, then open up to a nice gentle massage passage.The variation in textures means that you can get different sensations by focussing on different parts of the sleeve, so I find it pretty perfect for edging.
Dominika's Butterfly Fleshlight provides amazing realism and orgasm quality with a large attractive vulva that you won't be able to look away from. The first chamber has a very open channel containing large alternating pill shaped nodes that allows for quite a lot of movement and stimulation. The second chamber gets a bit tighter as you squeeze through a narrow passage of textured bumps. The third chamber of soft pointed nubs surround your cock and massage it from all angles.
Eva Lovia's Spice Fleshlight is that rare anal sleeve that feels realistic without being overly intense or aggressive. The Spice texture features a narrow entry chamber followed by a larger open area with small nubs, then finally another narrow ribbed chamber. This design creates a gentle suction effect that sucks your cock deeper into the sleeve. The combination of low to mid-intensity, realism, and mild suction feel awesome and result in high orgasm quality.
Brandi Love's Shameless Fleshlight is an extremely tight anal sleeve with a one-of-a-kind penetration experience. Stretch out her tiny little hole and push into a narrow, nubbed chamber that gives way to layers of honeycomb ridges that ratchet up the pressure.
With your dick fully inserted, Brandi's protruding buttocks tickle your balls and tease your sensitive undercarriage.
Read buying guide: The Tightest Fleshlight Sleeves
The first chamber of the Nikki Benz Reign Fleshlight is lined with a thick criss-cross pattern that feels amazing as you slide in, especially on your head and frenelum. Push further and you can feel several rings pop and squeeze your tip, before you enter into an even tighter area. There is no relief with this sleeve, it is intense sensation after intense sensation.
Ana Foxx's Silk Fleshlight is silky smooth, but not so smooth that it's boring. There are some mild variations in the texture but overall it's a medium tight and gentle ride that works well for longer and less intense edging sessions. The smaller channel with the little bumps feels delightful as you push into the third chamber, lightly teasing your tip, building excitement and the drive towards climax. This makes it a great texture to try at different stoke lengths and positions.
Riley Reid's Quickshot packs a surprising variety of textures into the Quickshot's smaller open-ended stroker design. Push past Riley's lips into her snug pussy and you'll feel the grip of stimulating gears. On the opposite end, her asshole has a nice tightness to it with a blocky pattern that offer a nice resistance.
Read full review: Fleshlight Quickshot Review